oh hi i went to brandonwtf tumblr but then he answer to come here ok i have a girlfriend we have been with each other for 6 months and i really do love her i do not want to leave her but i go anonymously to another girl page and leave her sweet notes because i like her not love her but i feel bad becase my girlfriend but i am ananoymous but still feel bad i dont know what to do because i love my gf but i like the other girl but i would never leave my gf bt whatif something could happen with the other girl so you see im kind of in the middle buyt i know for certain i would not leave my gf for this girl but im afraid if my gf breaks up with me and istop talking to this girl the girl will find someone else then i will have no one i do not believe in cheating and i will never cheat on my gf so what do i do do you know
Asketh - Anonymous
I don’t want to sound harsh but what you’re doing is wrong. If I found out Brandon was leaving sweet notes to another girl, I would leave him.
Being anonymous isn’t making what you’re doing better, it’s making it look like you don’t want to be caught doing it.
You have to make a choice, you can’t keep doing this because it will do nothing but hurt the girls involved and even hurt you.
If you choose your girlfriend, you should tell her the truth. I know I would want Brandon to confess to me his mistakes. If she breaks up with you, then she breaks up with you and hopefully that will show you that going behind a girlfriend’s back and liking a different girl isn’t the best thing to do.
I know you must feel pretty confused, and I do respect the fact you’ve understood this is an issue. You got yourself into this mess by yourself, so I can’t help as much as you’d like. Most girls would consider what you’re doing as cheating, so this is a big deal which needs to be sorted quickly.
If you like someone else, then you can’t love your girlfriend. I don’t understand how that’s possible. Whichever girl you choose, you have to be honest with them and tell them what happened.
You said you wouldn’t leave your girlfriend for this other girl, so that means you have to STOP talking to the other girl and confess to your girlfriend.
You have to be a man and face up to the mistake you’ve made. It’s the respectable and mature thing to do.
Or, you could just stop talking to both of them and be single which means you could flirt and talk to any girl you like. Which saves a lot of emotions and hearts being broken.
I’m sorry if this sounded harsh, but you only have one choice or another. Choose the girlfriend and stop talking to the other girl, choose the other girl.
I hope this helped, and good luck. I really do hope you do the right thing.
