Hello :) okay,I moved with my family in 2006 when I was in 6th grade,and I left my best friend,I found another best friend and then I came back last year to the same town and I talk to my old best friend again,she introduced me to her friends and I love them already,especially one of her friends,he's a guy,and I'm really starting to have feelings for him,he's funny and cute,and he smells amazing and I love it when he hugs me :) but he used to be with my friends other friend,and she cheated on him,I'm just very confused right now because all I want to do is be with him,how can I get him to notice me? I'm very bad at flirting,I've never had a boyfriend and I've never been kissed or touch,but I want to do all these things with him..I really do,and I don't know how to be confident almost,I feel like there's something wrong with me,at home I feel like I look fine but when I'm around him,I feel ugly and not good enough,I just want to be attractive to him.
Asketh - Anonymous
Well, since your best friend is friends with him, you can confide in your best friend about your feelings for him. Only if you feel it’s right though. If you do tell your best friend, they will be able to support you and help your confidence. Also, because your friends with someone he knows, it’ll be so easy for you to arrange to hang out. You’re really at an advantage here, some people have no way to ease in being friends with their crush. You have to focus on earning trust and a close friendship with him. Relationships don’t just happen out of the blue. It will take time, but as long as you become friends with him you’ll then be able to start hanging out with him by yourself. You don’t need to flirt obviously with him, but dropping a few compliments here and there always make a guy smile. As long as you don’t go overboard and suffocate him, then he’ll end up warming up to you. If you’re alone with him, you can openly just say things like, ‘Oh I didn’t notice how bright your eyes are.’ It’s so easy to drop compliments like that without seeming over the top. You just have to work at a friendship because once you’re close enough to talk to him about anything, it will be far easier for you to admit your feelings for him.
Really hope this helped x Good luck
